tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7584891229080686774.post7561064969220209149..comments2024-03-16T12:15:42.328-04:00Comments on Living in Two Languages: StretchingBilingualhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15309187099940998081noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7584891229080686774.post-67567595539311980172017-08-21T04:38:53.862-04:002017-08-21T04:38:53.862-04:00Divorcee sed: "I would be careful, categorizi...Divorcee sed: "I would be careful, categorizing is a dangerous thing to do."<br /><br />I'd agree 100%. Why worry about calling yourself anything? Once you trip down that path then you will find all kinds of people who want to offer you a "cure" for something that isn't wrong with you. You are you. Reading a romance novel won't change you into something you are not. <br /><br /><a href="https://loves-relationships.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow">แคมฟรอก</a><br />Yang Kuohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09717077611815940582noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7584891229080686774.post-67470638877018585802017-07-11T02:44:29.477-04:002017-07-11T02:44:29.477-04:00Nice blog !!!
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Why worry about calling yourself anything? Once you trip down that path then you will find all kinds of people who want to offer you a "cure" for something that isn't wrong with you. You are you. Reading a romance novel won't change you into something you are not. <br /><br />I chuckled at this quote: "You've had your share of sexual fantasies- then you're not asexual, period." because two people could have very very different ideas of whether a particular fantasy is sexual. I've known someone who thought doing the crossword puzzle with someone was so intimate she fantasized about finding someone who would do them with her. That was a sexual fantasy for her. <br /><br />As for what you might be in your future, leave all possibilities open and don't look too far ahead. Just do the next right thing. As for children, there's always adoption.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7584891229080686774.post-33663558077967766292011-01-05T10:09:01.197-05:002011-01-05T10:09:01.197-05:00I meant to say "are not interested in changin...I meant to say "are not interested in changing the situation." Sorry for the typos.AnotherAsexualnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7584891229080686774.post-30827248810871325242011-01-05T10:06:39.879-05:002011-01-05T10:06:39.879-05:00"You've had your share of sexual fantasie..."You've had your share of sexual fantasies- then you're not asexual, period."<br /><br />That is simply not true.<br /><br />Cheesy romance novels will not make much of a difference either.<br /><br />Maybe those things are true and work for you, but to assume they are true across the board for all people who deal with this is presumptuous.<br /><br />In addition, many people who identify as asexual are interested in changing the situation. Many ARE married to partners who either understand, or are also of the low-to-no libido population. Many people who identify as asexual enjoy emotional intimacy, some enjoy physical contact (like cuddling for example.)<br /><br />There is no single answer for that will apply to every person, and simplistic thinking/suggestions/solutions are simply that. Simplistic.AnotherAsexualnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7584891229080686774.post-74835402805659096922010-12-29T21:03:32.085-05:002010-12-29T21:03:32.085-05:00You've had your share of sexual fantasies- the...You've had your share of sexual fantasies- then you're not asexual, period. <br /><br />But consistent sexual repression, sexual pressure, or bad sexual experiences can knock one into an asexual mode for a while. You've had all of these, so it makes sense that you need some recovery time. Possibly a lot of time.<br /><br />In the meantime, while you're waiting, I suggest you get into the habit of reading cheesy romance literature, the type that would ordinarily be way beneath you.kisaritahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18181012456635737873noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7584891229080686774.post-77091112211981504032010-12-29T08:21:26.336-05:002010-12-29T08:21:26.336-05:00I am 42, not married, without sexual activity for ...I am 42, not married, without sexual activity for the past say 20 years.<br /><br />In the past, I often felt pressured by the "family-Surroundings" both in the jewish and non-jewish world: The jewish world wants you to find a mate, the non-jewish world thinks even weirder of you if you have no partner.<br /><br />In the past months and years, I made my peace with this state of affairs.<br /><br />Sometimes, I miss having "a shoulder to rely upon", but honestly, I could not imagine, at the moment, having someone intrude on my privacy on a daily basis.<br /><br />So all I can tell you: if you feel all right the way you are, just feel all right, there is no reason to be ashamed of that.<br /><br />On the other hand, I think that the jewish shidduch-system is not very favourable to me, because I think I would rather "get used" to someone, slowly, slowly, perhaps starting touching at one moment, etc... The all or nothing system of shidduchim is not for me...singlenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7584891229080686774.post-36372127578840266892010-12-29T06:51:18.792-05:002010-12-29T06:51:18.792-05:00I would be careful, categorizing is a dangerous th...I would be careful, categorizing is a dangerous thing to do.<br /><br />Nice to hear from you, been thinking about you.Divorceenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7584891229080686774.post-55225952836996299772010-12-28T16:29:05.891-05:002010-12-28T16:29:05.891-05:00I came across it yesterday; that's part of wha...I came across it yesterday; that's part of what prompted the post.Bilingualhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15309187099940998081noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7584891229080686774.post-3991249183172203442010-12-28T11:38:20.964-05:002010-12-28T11:38:20.964-05:00Hmm, I posted this yesterday but it didn't sho...Hmm, I posted this yesterday but it didn't show up. You are not alone or the only one.<br /><br />Are you familiar with the website Acebook? It was very helpful to me.JustLikeYounoreply@blogger.com